{"id":5986,"date":"2026-06-28T22:49:16","date_gmt":"2026-06-28T20:49:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nordzypern.live\/?p=5986"},"modified":"2026-06-28T22:49:16","modified_gmt":"2026-06-28T20:49:16","slug":"wenn-trauer-einen-nach-zypern-zurueckfuehrt","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nordzypern.live\/en\/2026\/06\/28\/wenn-trauer-einen-nach-zypern-zurueckfuehrt\/","title":{"rendered":"When grief brings you back to Cyprus"},"content":{"rendered":"<br \/>\n<h2>Mourning and remembrance in Cyprus<\/h2>\n<p>Matthew Philip Long began writing his first novella a few months after his mother&#039;s death. The story is set in Cyprus and follows a man who returns to his birthplace after his mother&#039;s death, searching for traces of her. Long writes about grief, memory, and the sense of belonging with a linguistic depth that is both moving and poignant, portraying the inevitability of loss.<\/p>\n<h2>Personal motivation and origin<\/h2>\n<p>Long recounts that his book was not originally intended for other people. It began as diary entries when, for several years after his mother&#039;s death, he commuted between Cyprus and his current home. Equipped with a camera and notebook, he attempted to forge a connection to his mother and to Cyprus by recording his feelings.<\/p>\n<h2>Experiences and insights<\/h2>\n<p>Born in Ayios Nikolaos on a British military base, Long spent only a few years in Cyprus. His memories of the island come primarily from the stories told by his mother, who had a deep love for Cyprus. After her death, photography allowed him to make those memories tangible, and writing helped him find healing and express his grief.<\/p>\n<h2>The multifaceted exploration of loss<\/h2>\n<p>When Long learned of his mother&#039;s sudden death, a profound transformation began for him. His novella deals not only with the grief over the loss of a loved one, but also with the grief over one&#039;s own altered identity. He describes how things can never be the same again and how important it is to acknowledge this loss and say goodbye to a past self.<\/p>\n<h2>Connection to Cyprus and colonial history<\/h2>\n<p>The novella also reflects on the complex relationship to his homeland and the traces of British colonial history in Cyprus. Long grapples with his role as a Briton on the island and considers the attempt to find belonging as an aspect of a colonial attitude. Despite his position as an outsider, he now calls Nicosia his home and accepts the past and present in a process of reconciliation.<\/p>\n<h2>Writing as expression and process<\/h2>\n<p>For Long, writing is a means of understanding the world and himself. He sees his novella not as a guide or conclusion, but as a collection of meditative thoughts and reflections on grief, as well as a love letter to Cyprus. The novella will be released on June 26 and will be available in various formats, followed by book launches in October.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Grief and Memory in Cyprus: Matthew Philip Long began writing his first novella a few months after his mother&#039;s death. The story is set in Cyprus and follows a man who returns to his birthplace after losing his mother, searching for traces of her. Long writes about grief, memory, and...<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5986","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/nordzypern.live\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5986","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/nordzypern.live\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/nordzypern.live\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nordzypern.live\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nordzypern.live\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5986"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/nordzypern.live\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5986\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6066,"href":"https:\/\/nordzypern.live\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5986\/revisions\/6066"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/nordzypern.live\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5986"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nordzypern.live\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5986"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nordzypern.live\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5986"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}